The Cat is Still Overrated

By Lucius Gantt

There are men and women in your community who are encouraging young people to dismiss traditional marriage and relationship guidelines.

Our youth are being told "all men are dogs", and young girls are being led to believe, "all men want is their 'horn' blown, once or twice a month" to pay a woman's bills forever and a day!

Truth is, men and women can walk a mile in any direction to find some people with cats, and snakes, and mouths they want to rent or sell.

I would think that every human born has genitalia.

Anyway, I wrote a Gantt Report column, at least 25 years ago, entitled "The Cat Is Overrated". The post was not meant to criticize or disparage men and women who go from bed to bed pursuing people to sleep with, I just think good marriages and relationships usually involve many other considerations.

When people reach maturity, most have heard all the "lies" and have been exposed to all the games. Those people are shocked to find a 70 and 80 year old chasing chasing coin purses, when they have a man or woman right beside them who are chasing "the bag"!

Don't get it twisted. Smart men and women don't need to be in a cyclone, tornado, or a hurricane to know which way the relationship wind is blowing. The changes in trust and loyalty, and the desire for multiple sex partners and and other men or women, is disrespectful and meticulously schemed, plotted, planned, timed and desired.

When smart men and women feel a stray is in play, most are quiet. When lies are told about them, they ignore it, but they collect facts and evidence of relationship and mental and physical misconduct.

They are never surprised. They are calculated. they see things quickly that lying eyes can't vision. Even after being lied to, lied about, laughed at, criticized, and diminished, they feel they are protected by the TRUTH. If you don't know, God protects His male and female truth-tellers, and soldiers. No clapback will come from smart men and women. They will protect themselves when a cheater attempts to destroy their reputations, their businesses, or their lives.

Liars and cheaters depict themselves as perfect and their partners as dumb, broke, too sensitive, or unavailable. But the women and men who discard partners that want to love them, will be the ones who are exposed and ridiculed. Liars and cheaters claim they are in control of their relationships. They say that they are the "Boss B" or the "Boss N" who controls family, friends, and new designated hitters. But some men and women can't be controlled!

No boss will discard a King or Queen and replace them with a pawn or a cheap trick. Men and women seeking honesty, respect, love, peace, support, loyalty, safety, and understanding are protected by God from hate and ridicule.

Smart people want consistency, liars and cheaters want convenience, opportunities, and free glasses of cheap liquor to make desired cheating while drunk a lot easier.

A good man or woman will never discuss their relationship activity with desired sex partners, friends, coworkers, or neighbors. Being a blabbermouth who is quick to say to people outside their relationship, "If I find someone to pay for everything I want, I''ll dump the person that loves me. I'll lie and destroy him and his business, and when the trick I chose goes back to his wife and other side pieces, and stops buying me cheap champagne, I'll just go back where I was, make a false apology, and give my old man a BJ to get him to take me back!

Now that scenario should be made into a movie, perhaps called "Madea and the Trick"!

Brothers and sisters, love is more than the snake hitting the cat. You can't tell everyone you meet , "I'll sleep with you if you show me a picture of your friends car or your neighbor's house, and tell me it's yours".

Liars and cheaters often hurt people that love them but they can't kill men or women that can't be killed! As I always say, life is a double-edged sword that cuts both ways!

Stop the lies and community sex! Karma is coming. What you try to do to others will be done to you. The hurt and pain you sought to cause loved ones harm, boomeranged back to you. Your true comforter will be considerate, but not ordered, to help fallen cheaters they cared about when heir tricks drop them like bad habits.

Can a person who lied and cheated you get back together with you? They can, but the relation must be different, much better, more honest and considerate. Sometimes smart women and men can fix what they broke, if they use better tools!

Sometimes, God uses bad people to accomplish good things. Use your brain more than your booty! The TRUTH is always an absolute relationship defense.

Don't let your thirst convince you to seek water from guys and girls in the juke joint lying ponds that will do like you do for a few weeks in the sheets but will share with other snakes how easy you were to hit when the begging starts. .

The Cat and the Snake are always overrated! You can't save male or female cheaters who don't want to be saved.

Loved, cherished and respected. men and and women know that TRUTH and LOVE are more sexy than an insincere wallow in an over-crowded cat house!

Am I crazy? Time will tell. Comment and let me know!