God Is Love

By Lucius Gantt

      A few members of the TGR family have asked me why I've recently written a post or two and a few social media promos about relationships.

       Duh? Relationship advice is something internet scrollers and viewers enjoy reading and commenting on. I have an internet platform and sometimes you have to post about the bitter and. the sweet.

        Anyway, I want you to know God is love. Virtuous women and righteous men know that. If you live long enough, someone you thought had love for you, will reveal their truly evil intentions.

        If a person tells you, "All women are whores" or "All men are dogs", smart men and women don't walk away; they run for the hills as fast as possible! Lies are lies every time lies are told. Lies are the main reasons relationships falter or end. You've heard it before, "He's just a friend", or "She's just a coworker"!

        No one wants to build a good relationship with bad actors. You may meet someone who exaggerates their relation love but misrepresents their true relationship history.

        Narcissists love to demand, control, and manipulate. They want money when they ask for it, dates when they demand them, and unprotected sex when horny and needy. Multiple sex partners on the same days are often rules, not exceptions. Cheaters cheat over and over again even after they get caught.

         The man or woman you thought loved you had multiple side pieces, had profiles on multiple dating sites, multiple cell phone numbers to recognize callers without having many booty callers discover each other, and they were constant flirts who will put hands and lips on anyone, and anywhere, who will let them.

          We've all wasted time with flirters who flirted with everyone. We listened to the lies, we ignored all the false blame, we tolerated the infidelity in hopes that the honesty and respect you have would be rewarded and appreciated but; it never came.

           If you seek truth, respect, unity, peace, progress, shared control, and decision-making, it will never come from a pimp or a trick!

           Devilish men and women want to control everything, what you do, what you say, where you go, and who you should believe.

           A relationship narcissist has to retain relationship control. If he or she is less smart, less honest, less caring, less communicative, less intimate, and less comforting, it makes relation liars angry.

            Bad relationship partners can't stop what can't be stopped! Men and women who only want occasional sex will never be happy with a person seeking a loving lifetime.

             I have two daughters and told both, "Don't get excited about pictures of cars and houses, get excited about the man or woman in the car who has titles and deeds. Pimp talk and smiles are nice, but don't bet your future on them.

             Learn to recognize good men and good women, God will send you a soul mate who is honest, dependable, and loving like you are, or at least a woman, or man, that you can live with, grow with, progress with, and excel with.,

             Good women and men can survive toxic and wicked relationship pretenders who lied about caring about you, but they will never forget, who helped them when they couldn't help themselves, took them places they couldn't take themselves, and let them be who and what they wanted to be.

             It's no surprise. The true God is the purveyor of true love. Sex on the first date is tricking!